Stress and Anxiety

Stress and Anxiety (1:41)

“As you go through life, you’ll learn to kind of figure out what is worth worrying about and what is not. So just asking yourself and thinking about the bigger picture will reduce a lot of that stress and anxiety, because you’re saying, “Well, for all of the things that could have happened, this is what happened instead. And it’s fixable.” Most things in life are fixable.”

Video Transcript

I think it’s really important to form a support system for yourself early on. And this is something that has helped me in times where I feel a lot of anxiety or stress, to know that I have friends or family or even just a mentor that I can reach out to and that I trust. And it’s something that you really have to take the initiative to do, to build these support systems for yourself.

As you go through life, you’ll learn to kind of figure out what is worth worrying about and what is not. So just asking yourself and thinking about the bigger picture will reduce a lot of that stress and anxiety, because you’re saying, “Well, for all of the things that could have happened, this is what happened instead. And it’s fixable.” Most things in life are fixable.

I really recommend looking at how you treat yourself, even who you’re around. Sometimes the people you’re around can make you anxious, and you have to tie back or look back at, “What happened right before I felt this way?” Think about what you can do to calm down your thoughts, take a step back, and kind of slow down.

You have to make yourself the first priority. You have to pay yourself first. Pay yourself in sleep and pay yourself in exercise and pay yourself in eating a healthy breakfast to start the day. Pay yourself by cutting out half of the caffeine. Pay yourself by taking that hot bath at night and meditating. And so it’s really important that you take care of yourself throughout your journey.

You only get one life. It’s important to live it to its fullest. But it’s also important to take care of yourself along the way.

Discussion Guide

Independent Learning Guide: This all-purpose guide can be used by educators, parents, and mentors to jumpstart a lively discussion about how to deal with stress and anxiety.

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Fun Page Activity

Fun Page Activity: Building a support system is one way that the role models suggested women and girls work to deal with stress and anxiety. Use the chart in this activity to think about your personal support system and how it can help you live your life to the fullest.